You have probably finished a sex session feeling like you did not give your all. It is even worse if you left your woman high and dry, when she was expecting you to reach your peak and get her to the proverbial high heaven. When it comes to bedroom business, no man wants to be known as the ‘One Minute Man’. Unfortunately, men are wired to have an orgasm that lasts only a few seconds. Women, on the other hand, can get multiple orgasms. Most women complain how their men go flaccid and weak after the first orgasm, and it is only because men are wired to fizzle out after the first big round. A man who wants to give it a second shot often has to wait 30 minutes before he can get things heated up again. So the big question is this: How can a man learn to cum twice? Let’s take a look at the options:
1. Prostate Stimulation. Did you know you could have an orgasm without ejaculation? For starters, the prostate is a small reproductive organ located below the bladder. To stimulate the prostate needs, a bit of practice and a little sense of adventure, since it involves ass play. First, get your partner to locate your prostate. Locating it should not be hard; just like the penis, it swells up on arousal. Since this area is not naturally lubricated, get some lube. If you choose to do this solo, get some sex toys to make it kinkier. Playing with your prostate can help you achieve orgasm without having to touch your penis once. And to crown it all, you can get multiple orgasms that last minutes! The key to this is to get yourself and your partner horny. That way, you can focus your mind on deriving pleasure at every movement around the prostate area.
2. Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms. When you cum, you have to wait around 30 minutes to get another hard on. However, with enough practice, you can get multiple orgasms without ejaculation. For this, you have to learn to control your pelvic floor muscle-the muscle that controls both ejaculation and the flow of pee. You can do this in the following ways:
– Kegel Exercises. Most women might be familiar with kegel, as it helps regain control of bladder movements after childbirth. Men can also steal the secret. When you start to pee, try to stop mid-flow. It is hard at first, but it gets easier with time. Each time you have to pee, stop the flow for around 10 seconds, then release, then repeat. Even when not peeing, contract and relax the pelvic muscles to strengthen them. This way, you can easily stop ejaculation during orgasm.
–Masturbation. Playing with yourself is not so bad after all. Masturbation is an effective way to practice holding your cum. Stroke your penis almost to the point of orgasm, then stop. After a few seconds, repeat. When you feel the orgasm coming on, tighten your pelvic muscle and you will find yourself having an orgasm without ejaculation.
Final Word. As they say, all good things take time; and multiple orgasms are no exception. You will fumble a bit trying to get your footing but once you get it right, you will be unstoppable.